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In my broken family it was less about support and approval but more about not getting scolded. So this lesson only applies to those that did not grow up in a broken family.

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i am yet a child. apparently i am loved. but there is no love to prove this.

I've been really struggling for almost 5 yrs.. not sure what to do... If I don't figure it out soon, I will probably lose everything I've built and worked for.

Basically every single mothers kid

Niccolo why you have to do me like that at the end there.

they start playing overwatch

Maternal deprivation - it's theorised to be criminogenic

The only Solution is Jesus Christ. He lived and died for us out of Love to Humankind. The statement „no one loves me“ is factually and thankfully untrue. Christ does love us. Turn to him and seek him. Good bless.

Government's job is to print money (for Green Energy, EVs, Nation Building, Wars, etc). FED jobs is to make sure the resulting inflation is limited to a rate of "2%" per year. Basically they want to boil the frog slowly to avoid mass panic. They're doing good job as debt has reached $34,000,000,000,000 without much notice.

Jostein Gaarder wrote a fantastic book called Sophies' World which is a kind of dialog between a mysterious unknwon and invisible person and the young Sophie who receive letters with questions in her mailbox. One of the question Sophie has received is 'Who are you?' 'It follows Sophie Amundsen, a Norwegian teenager, who is introduced to the history of philosophy as she is asked "Who are you?" in a letter from an unknown philosopher.' Reading this book can help.

The pleasure of knocking on your neighbors door for coffee invitation

There were two sets of rules in my house. The ones before 12pm and the ones after. It wasn't unlike having a world and a mirror shadow world.

My father had a very short fuse and a bad temper. To this day, (I'm 59) I avoid conflict and situations that had a potential to escalate. This fear made me weak. Only recently, I allowed myself to be disagreeable and feel comfortable saying No.

As much as I agree with all the points here i do think it is important we do not swing too far in the opposite direction. I had many anxiety induced physical issues but then I was injured after a procedure and after a clear spell(I learnt how to manage my stress). Now I am, by some, being told It is due to childhood trauma not the error of medical professionals. So as much as handling stress, managing and reconciling trauma is critical for well being we need to still see the individual as susceptible to both mental and physical issues. The mere instance of one can not exclude the other.

I've never heard a voice that sounds more like a psychiatrists as this one

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I told my grandma I didn't believe her when she told me she loved me and she decided the best way to handle it was to completely stop telling me. Note: she still tells everyone else she loves them including family members, friends, and even strangers. Except she never tells me or my mom (her daughter).

What if the answer to the questions is "nothing"? What if you got raised and ignored, with anything you did being "praised" without that praise meaning anything at all?

When I don’t know who I am I just look at my drivers license. It even shows where I live!

Me and my dad were the opposite when it comes to this. Now hebdied of alchol poisoning nit listeni g to sn6ine having broken allbthe bridgrsbto our fsmily because our family did us both wrong.

So true about family having more effect than culture. There is more variation within the populations than between the populations.

We need Jesus

I have always felt a very deep sense of shame all my life, and I never understood it. I thought it was because of the way i dressed so i changed it but still couldn't shake it off but i saw this few weeks ago and it clicked then. Everything made sense, thank you.

Might turn out into a killer

You know after i watched this video i dont seem so messed up . Ya see we're all messed up 😂we are not alone 😊❤

Beautiful, enlightening and helpful. Thank you Alain. Love you

Wow. A very precise description of the origin of narcissism. Thank you. I like especially the alternative angle to look at the "wrong doing" to the narcissistic person as a child!

Okay, I'll take a shot at this, as everyone else has. I needed to be normal. To not be so afraid of everything, including just going down a slide. To learn emotions are deceiving. To have emotional control. To think before speaking and acting. To have a more rational and psychological well mind. To truly understand there is very little we can control. To be more social, to truly understand that is way the world works. To develop determination, to not give up so quickly. To develop resiliency, for that is how high achievers get anything done. To know that structure and discipline in every aspect is not the enemy ... laziness and fear are your proper enemies. To know and understand that structure and discipline are the other things that make high achievers .. not "talent" or "gifts". To know that fantasy, faerie tales, imagination, dreams, and daydreams are illusions and anchors that would tie me down, that would keep me living and developing as a human being. To see them as a crutch that would turn into a wheelchair if I was not careful. To learn that taking responsibility and accountability with things is more right than wrong, even when it does not feel that way. I can keep going on with my failures to learn and become anything more than a creature of flesh and bone, but I will stop and end the point with this one ... To learn how to grow the hell up and be a proper gentleman. How did I do? Did I cover a lot? Did I uncover this "wounded, inner child?"

new zealand exists btw.

nice video but it doesn't answer the question in the title

Jesus is the only one who can redeem this type of pain

Rather than take Socrates at face value I recommend reading I.F. Stone's, The Trial of Socrates. Stone does a brilliant job of showing Socrates and Platos biases and making the counterarguments they prefer to ignore. It's the Roger Ailes' & Rupert Murdochs we ought to worry about--people who get rich by keeping the masses ignorant.

Hallelujah!!! I’m the favorite, $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and also support the work of God and the church.

Yeah, i went the antisocial route n now im trying to fix it...

I understand my behavior, but that doesn't tell me WHO I am.

I feel like I am nothing since I've lost everyone in my life. They are all in the past, and I am left alone for the future. And it was as if my identity lied in who I hang out with. And as soon as these people disappeared and I had to stand on my own legs completeley, then I know longer knew who I was. I need to find who I am without thinking that I am someone only when I have a certain set of people in my life. My identity shouldn't be based on who I hang out with.